10 Signs You’re an Entitled Leader
I have a friend who spent many years working as a TV news reporter. His career earned him access to all sorts of cool places, like professional sporting events, exclusive golf courses, and even Disney World. All of this was offered to him for free, and he started to feel a sense of entitlement. Once […]
10 Questions to Ask Your Spouse Regularly
My wife, Susan, is always trying to improve. She wants to be the best mom, wife, and boss possible, so she’s constantly asking herself questions. Her daily check-ins include questions like, “Did I do ___ well? Could I do ___ better?” She grades herself, believing asking good questions will help her steadily progress toward her […]
5 People to Call Every Month
I charge my cell phone every night. You probably do, too. I need mine topped off to start my mornings because I continually check in with our iMOM and All Pro Dad supporters, updating them on how they’re helping us fulfill our mission to help families love each other well. It’s great to check in […]
3 Things to Bring and 3 to Forget on Your Next Date
In 2022, YouGov polled 2,000 married couples aged 18–55, asking, “How often do you do the following: Go on date nights where you have a chance to talk, catch up, and do something fun with your spouse?” A startling 52% of couples said “never” or “a few times a year.” Just 48% had date nights […]
6 P’s to Use Next Time You’re Triggered
We’ve all experienced a moment like this—you overhear or see something that inexplicably kickstarts an intense emotional response. You’ve been triggered. It’s a natural reaction in our brains, usually related to past wounds or trauma, and it often wells up in us without warning. Triggers leave us feeling anxious, panicked, or angry. To fight the feelings, […]
6 Everyday Things to Do to Make Your Marriage Stronger
We have some long distance runners in our office, and they frequently discuss their exercise routines during lunch breaks. Last year, one guy vowed to run at least one mile a day. Somebody else decided to train for her first half marathon. Both hit their goals, because they stuck to their workout plans. Running 365 […]
9 Uncomfortable Realities in Every Marriage
A coworker of mine visited his friend’s house after a pipe had broken, flooding the kitchen. Floorboards had to be tossed out, and the concrete was exposed. “I’m sorry this happened,” my coworker said. His friend replied, “It’s just part of it.” He knew life is filled with challenges, and because he has accepted that, […]
4 Ways Your Marriage Is a Gift
We’ve all heard a husband refer to his wife as “the old ball and chain.” And lots of wives crack jokes about their husbands—jokes that sound a lot like criticism. While most of those spouses are only kidding, many married couples’ comedic jabs at each other are rooted in something that isn’t funny. They’ve forgotten […]
3 P’s Required for Success
Success comes in all shapes, sizes, and timelines. Walt Disney’s first animated film, Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs, was an instant hit. It debuted to a worldwide audience in 1937, won several major awards, and catapulted Disney as an entertainment giant. Other people, like author Harper Lee, struggled before making it big. She wrote […]
