5 Questions to Ask Your Spouse Daily

Legendary NFL quarterback Joe Montana revealed something interesting in a documentary. Talking about his playing days, Montana said he would call his wife during football games from the sidelines just to check in to see how her day was going. He was clearly busy, but not too busy to have his wife’s wellbeing on his […]
4 A’s of Flourishing After Failure

Ever heard of Mickey Mouse Park? No, it’s not a new Disney attraction opening this summer. It was Walt Disney’s failed attempt at launching a theme park. Disney hoped to build a place near his Burbank, California studio where families could gather to enjoy animation and imagination. Unfortunately, he couldn’t get enough financial backing or […]
4 Ways Tech Use Hurts Your Marriage

Apple released its Vision Pro goggles in February 2024. You can now immerse yourself in a “spatial computing” environment, use apps, and watch videos as if you are part of them. Apple’s own ad claims Vision Pro users are “not isolated from other people.” But right after the product release, people wearing the goggles in […]
4 Ways to Motivate Yourself

I have written several books, including All Pro Dad. If you’ve never tried to write a few hundred pages of content, believe me when I say the process of writing can be taxing. I certainly had days when I would wake up fully energized, ready to sit down at the keyboard and spill out all […]
6 Subtle Words That Will Influence Others

I remember the major adjustments that came with adopting two children from Russia. These two kids came to us not having experienced much love, and it was our job to show them their value. But no matter how hard we tried, the early days were tough because of their childhood traumas. I remember being face […]
9 of the Biggest Turnoffs for Wives

I like to leave notes around the house for my wife, Susan. I’ve done it for years and she’s really appreciated them. I’d leave a sticky note with messages like “You caffeinate me!” on the coffee pot or “Checking you out…” on the bathroom mirror. My motivation was solely to make her feel good. I […]
5 Signs You Need Self-Care as a Leader

“Self-care” can be a confusing term. When you hear it, you may picture anything from taking a day spa trip to spending afternoons in a hammock. Self-care doesn’t mean laziness. It means recharging yourself. This is important as a parent and a spouse but also as a leader. In fact, self-care in leadership is a […]
6 Ways We Unintentionally Belittle Our Spouses

I remember walking in on an argument between my wife, Susan, and one of our kids. Their discussion didn’t seem to be progressing very well, and I decided to step in. Unfortunately, that just made things worse. Unintentionally, I started speaking to both of them like they were kids, which really upset Susan. She was […]
An Attitude You Need to Remove From Your Marriage ASAP

When my friend decided to sell his house, the home inspection revealed cracks in the foundation. His realtor told him that no one would buy the house until the foundation was secured. Cracks in the foundation, even small ones, can make the structure of the house unstable. So, it’s important for it to be solid. […]