10 Things Wives Want to Hear from their Husbands

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Last month I wrote about the 10 things husbands want to hear from their wives. Now I thought it was time for me to reveal the 10 things wives want to hear from their husbands. So here they are…

1. “Thanks for all you do for our family.”

Yes, you work hard.  You might even feel that your load is a million times heavier than your wife’s.  But your wife works hard, too…and a little thanks goes a long way.

2. “You are a great mom and wife.”

If you really want to make her day, go beyond saying “thank you” and praise her for doing a good job.

3. “Let me do that for you.”

Your wife realizes you are exhausted when you get home from work.  She probably is too.  So offer to help out.  Start with something small like cleaning up after dinner.  Or, if you really want to score points, do the laundry or something else you normally don’t do.

4. “I love you so much.”

Did you notice the extra words, after the “I love you?”  Telling your wife you love her is a great start, but telling her why you love her, how much you love her, or that you’ll love her forever, will melt her heart.

5. “You are beautiful.”

No matter her age, her size or how long you’ve been married, a woman loves to hear that you think she’s attractive.  And, don’t just say, “You look nice.”  Instead, use adjectives like, great, lovely, fantastic.

6. “Let me watch the kids.”

If you already watch your children regularly, good job!  If you don’t, think of it this way.  When you offer to take care of the children, your wife gets to recharge her batteries.  A wife with a recharged battery is usually more patient, kind and loving.

7. “Let’s go out tonight.”

Take charge of your next date night.  This shows your wife that you enjoy spending time with her.

8. “I’m sorry you had a hard/frustrating/disappointing day.”

These words let your wife know that you are aware of what’s going on in her life.

9. “I would marry you all over again.”

In one sentence you’re telling your wife you value your life together and that you’re committed to her.

10. “How can I be a better husband to you?”

Hearing these words will either make your wife burst into tears, smile like a kid in a candy store, or, if she’s completely shocked, laugh uncontrollably.  Before you ask this question, though, be ready to hear what she has to say without being defensive.

Please note: I reserve the right to delete comments that are offensive or off-topic.

  • Sorry for the frustration, but MPK is right, we men really don’t want or need to talk about it. There will be exceptions, but it’s true for most of us. I consider my relationship with my wife to be very close, very open, and loving, but I don’t often ‘share’ the bad feelings. Perhaps we prefer to protect people from that, or do not want to appear weak. The male ego can complicate things sometimes.

  • love my family

    I love this list. I particularly would love to hear mine tell me that he appreciates all that I do for our family. Not one time have I ever heard that from him. I have to work, due to our financial situation, so it would be particularly welcome for ME to hear this from him. Not once. Also it would be wonderful to hear that I am a great mom and wife. Not once on that one either. Our marriage has been in trouble, in my mind only, for quite some time. I have never told him how I feel, except that I did ask him to go to a marriage counselor with me (a request which he ignored, TWICE), but I am trying to be positive and upbeat, and he has a new job that keeps him away a lot which has actually helped our situation by making us enjoy our time together more, but oh how I long to hear these words from him, yet feel that I never will. Thanks for all you do, Mark.

  • Yes_miss_Alice

    I hope this list is from the 50s or a time when equality in the home was less practiced and recognized because this is the most sexist and outdated list. So much of the language used is so unbelievably demeaning and offensive. “a wife with a recharged battery” what is she, a sex toy?! Not only that, it goes on to list how being nice to your wife will benefit you as the husband. I feel lucky to have a partner who respects our equal values but It’s also what i am entitled to, along with every other woman.

  • jaz

    I agree with this. Instead of just reading this by yourself and keep expecting you would hear these from him and at the end of the day nothing happens, why not share this to him and talk about things.. Which what i did and it cost me nothing! Small things can be resolved earlier before it becomes big if you just communicate with each other…

  • jaz

    I agree with this. Its also important to learn each others love languages.. Some want to hear it while others like to feel it.. What if both expects the other way of love language,,, then talk about it. Tell each other what will make you happy and content.. Whoelse should?

  • Donnadeen

    Sounds exactly like what my husbands comment would be!

  • drrichardnorris

    Hey Mark!

    A very practical list that will make a big difference in a marriage. Glad I score 10/10! (It has taken a conscious effort).

    Be Awesome!
    Richard

  • It is really easy to say the right things.  The difficult part is making sure your wife holds the right place in your heart.  Sometimes the people we love slide into the background the easiest.

  • Norm

    You are called to love your wife as a gift from God……no matter her response.  Tough, I realize, but be the bigger person and lead by example.  Try finding a group who is doing “Love & Respect” by Emerson Eggerich, or just read the book.  Eye opener……

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  • guest

    These are okay but can be pared down a bit.  #2 Can be left at “You’re a good mom.”  I don’t care if I’m a great wife or not.  How many husbands truly care about being “A great husband?”  Please!  #3 Just do it!  If you make a big production about doing something it is pointless.  Don’t SAY you’re going to do it, just do it!  You don’t deserve a reward for doing the laundry. #7 No thanks!  I’d rather go out with my friends.  Just do #6 more often. #9 Don’t bother.  I don’t care. We’re in this now, let’s make the best of it. #10 Really? I’m supposed to cry, smile like an idiot or laugh like a fool?  Just do the aforementioned things and we’ll be cool.  For my part, I will do the same.  I will tell you that you’re a good dad, I will help you with anything you need, and I will take care of the kids while you go out with your friends.   All of this goes back to doing for others as you would have them do for you.  It’s not rocket science.  There’s really no need for all the added hype.

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  • jimbo…

    My wife saw this list and died laughing. I tried to use it. But seriously? here’s a more realistic list for those of us who are more pragmatic…

    10) I like your long skirt much better than that slutty skirt that my hot coworker is wearing.

    9) Geesh! That person that cut me off must have been a man!

    8) Excuse me. I’m sorry. I’m lost and I’m too stupid to use google maps on my phone. Can you give me directions to the vasectomy clinic?

    7) You are right honey…

    6) After the Glee marathon can we stay home and listen to Bruno Mars all day?

    5) It’s ok. You can laugh at me. This injury won’t hurt me for too much longer.

    4) No need to clean up. I’ve already done the dishes.

    3) Dinner is served.

    2) I would love to call your mom.

    1) Yup… you got me that was a good one.

  • Lishawn

    I am a house wife. I would have probably said the same as your husband…. LOL.

  • JS2008

    As a wife and mother, I couldn’t disagree more with your assessment. My husband has an extremely stressful & confusing job and counts on me to be there as a “sounding board” for him, even when 99% of the time I have no idea what he is saying! It is the fact that I am LISTENING to him that he cares about. He doesn’t dump on me daily, just when it is getting to be too much. It also helps me understand the times he seems to be stand-offish or extra frustrated. By him talking to me about his work problems, I am better able to not take it personally. It was the same for him when I was still working full time. Just knowing he wanted to hear about my day (bad and good) helped ease a lot of my stress. Communication is an important component in any marriage, or relationship. We also know what is going on with our children in school, and not always because they tell us. We communicate with their teachers and follow their assignments and grades on the school’s website.

  • JS2008

    As a wife, I am sorry your wives are unappreciative of your attempts 🙁 The more I read some of the comments/responses on here, the more I appreciate my husband and everything he does for/with/because of me!! No, he doesn’t always do it the way *I* would have, but hey, at least he is doing it. Thank you for reminding me to value the thought and feeling in the gesture, and focus less on the execution!!

  • JS2008

    Same here…and I admit, sometimes I get annoyed by it, instead of appreciating that my husband loves me so much that he just can’t help it! Maybe an article on how to graciously accept compliments, even when you are annoyed and/or awkward at receiving them?? My husband is a love language of speech and physicality while I am more quiet/reserved and value my “me” time….

  • Korey Meyer Wysocki

    awesome!! I’m glad I’m not the only wife with a husband who has a one track mind. But I love him for it!! too funny!

  • dlmuller1

    That made for a good laugh! Thanks for sharing 🙂

  • Dave

    I’m not sure that this comment is a direct response to Mark’s article. It begs the question: since you’ve expressed that you are frustrated by “these articles,” what exactly would you rather Mark have said? “Why bother? Your marriage is doomed from the get go” perhaps? Of course not.

    I loved my first wife every single minute of 13 years while she never respected me and ultimately gave herself to another man before the ending it all in divorce. Neither that event in my life nor the hurt and anger I may never fully recover from changes the fact that Mark’s advice here is solid. These tips are not guarantees that your marriage will be a smashing success, they are tools to help each of us make sure that we are doing everything we can to contribute to it’s success. In the end, of course, it takes two, but this doesn’t free us from or duty to strive for a deeper love and respect for our wives as God would have us. This article is sound advice the difficulties that we both faced in our previous marriages (despite our best efforts) is no reflection on this good council.

  • Peter Levy

    I am one that “cares” for the boy. Watching them isn’t half as much fun as caring for them. Maybe it’s a regional thing?

  • Chellé

    husband and yours would be good friends 😉

  • Guest

    I think this post is awesome….however it makes me sad cause my husband does none of these and if I showed him this post he would clam up for another 30 years…all you who have a hubby that does just 2 or 3 of these things, Please appreciate everything you have

  • Kandi

    Always

  • Kandi

    One tracked mind.

  • Alyssa Marie James

    You’ve helped me and my husband a lot thank you 🙂

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  • LearnigAllTheTime

    It’s funny how what comes after “I love you.” can matter. I sent my wife a text and although I always say I love you at the end, this time (for whatever reason), I wrote “I love you to pieces.” She thought it was pretty cool! I actually got note on the bathroom mirror the next day saying “I love you to pieces, too!”. I really didn’t think it was anything when I did it. Who knew ?!

  • Lucas

    I have read through quite a few of these comments and I would have to say, thus far I am disappointed to see that despite the efforts to make a marriage stronger all we can focus on is our mate. We look at how they should be or act and how they need to open up or need to be available. I think you started off on the wrong foot. Like it or not marriage was instituted by God. It was meant to be an evident picture of Christ’s relationship with the church. He pursues her and chases her! We should in turn do the same. We aren’t supposed to fix our spouse, we are to look for opportunities to show them love. This article is about just that. Its a small example, though not to be overlooked, of what a husband that loves his wife should desire with her. Its not about your day necessarily but its about letting your wife inside a you and letting her know you deeply, like you did when you used to date one another. Its a process of falling in love all over again. It most definitely takes two! However your response to your spouse should never be contingent on how they treat you. True love is unconditional.

  • Marcel Acres

    I do the same everyday all day 4girls

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  • Anonymous

    That shows his love for u
    He loves the taste of your hand

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    If you have been reading comment online about this spell caster Akpe Osilama it will be easy for me to tell you this that he couldn’t get any more really that he is already. I have come to a conclusion that the gift he possess and his good heart are the strongest most powerful thing i have ever known. He is the most straight forward person and most understanding anyone can ever meet. He did not even ask for my money he just asked me to get materials that will be needed for the spell and that was it. To start, i am an alcoholic and also have a strong addiction for gambling. I lost almost a 100 grand on internet gambling and still did not stop at the same time i was drinking heavily i got suspended form work for a duration of four years because of my drinking problem & my home, i destroyed it with by myself. I was unfaithful to my wife several times and she knew what was happening, i kept yelling over nothing on my girls. My addiction to gambling and drinking was complimentary i was losing a lot of money and still playing and was drinking a lot to calm my nerves. The addiction made me numb my feelings was gone. My wife , my girls saw me as a monster. I remember this day, my wife told me it as my second girl’s birthday the other week and my responds was “grown *** girls don’t celebrate their birthday and if she wanted to she can as well go get a job so she can use want she earn to celebrate every day of her life”. I still can’t believe i said that to my wife and on top of that her sister was right there. My wife was hurt it was written all over her face her face and she told me ” I don’t even know who you are any more where is the man that use to be the human shield of this family ? that man would never had said anything to hurt me or his kids you don’t even care that you are scaring h*** out of this girls? one more of this and i am out” there i told her i don’t need them they were weighing me down that there were burden on me. Those words still hunts me till this day i can believe i really said all those words. My wife left me and off course with the kids and foolish drunk me happily signed the divorce papers. Honestly i don’t know maybe it because i was drunk most of the the day, i felt go i get gambling and kept drinking losing big and winning little waking up with different ladies on my bed every morning. I was like this for two years, and i felt i was on top of the world but my friend made me see i had nothing anymore his wife won’t let him talk to me or hang out with me i gradually felt empty. At a point i saw i needed to get clean and actually committed to my self to AA off course it was hard to admit but with my friends help i got committed. I was six months clean from alcohol and gambling when i discovered my wife was see another man and they were going to get married. I was still in love with her. She was mad when she saw me, she wanted nothing to do with me, my girls hated me because of me they could not even look at me. I tried to get close and got a restraining order. I needed to be my family again i know i ruined it by myself i just wanted to make it up to them i failed then and i wanted to redeem myself to show them the man that use to be the human shield of his family is back i found him again. Akpe Osilama was the man that help me made it happen. It was the course of find a away to reach my wife i found this great spell caster. I did not have the privilege of meeting but like he told other he had helped, some of them met him in real time. He told me after the spell casting my wife , my child will love me like we never fell apart they would know i messed up but they will not care about it any more. I got the materials that was required of me by i got i mean i asked him to help me sending over to him the total cost because most of the materials where only found in the heart of Libya. Just after the spell process was concluded a package was sent to me i can’t disclose its content but it rest easy it could not even harm a fly. He told me what to do with it and all he said will happen happened. I had my family back my wife , my child and i are once again that happy family i lost. I was still on suspension he told he i will get a call to come back to work and i did just after all he did for me. This spell caster he has something that saves lives. Am glad i met him all he promised me he did i wish i could me more grateful. I will leave his email contact like those other person that did in there comment or article which ever this is chiefpriestakpeosilamaspellcast ‘ at ‘ ‘ yahoo ‘ ‘ dot ‘ ‘ com ~~

  • Louise Damen

    How to restore a failing relationship Unlike the movies we see, every relationship will not always been happy forever. Something or factors are always there to drop the relationship you have given all. It may be due to dishonesty, failing to funding, lack of understanding, the requirement of unemployment and so on. It will take more than a lot to save a relationship failing to take i’ve been there. Now I know some ways that can help restore a failing relationship that will work, it forms the background to the latest high ultimate way I know. Understanding: Understanding is a way to restore a default relationship.But as easy as it sounds, it is the most difficult task accomplish.Why is it? let see. In a relationship is like to be that person who has never heard as he or she does not exist. Men feel like everything he says or does is just because they are men and they think they need to be still in charge because men are heard and women feel like they have need to be heard and their opinion counts a lot. If the two can not balance this, I see no hope for this relationship because after so many struggles resulting from misunderstandings they call the end. Stable finances: This is especially for men. It is important to have a stable finance, because a lot of bad things can happen due to financial difficulties. Even if your spouse choose to stay with you through troubled times, you can see that the default and before you know little things and talk about money leads to fight and as you know the relationship falls. But stable finances can restore a failing relationship in a measure before some other factors plans. Couple Counseling: This for a very long time is the last point of almost all couples before the final relationship fall.Here terminal are either restored or destroyed.Couple Council recorded a large amount of success over the years, but does not guarantee that the relationship will remain strong for long time.Studies show that most relationships recorded by the board experienced a positive change for up to 3-5 years before failing again and some even comes experienced no change. I’m not saying couples therapy does not work I simply say, it does not really guarantee a lasting relationship. D’Amour spell: For me, this is the only way that you and someone you love will always be, as they have promised you. My marriage had its largest penalty the board, understanding and all the things I wrote above, and the only thing that worked for me was the Ajayi Ololo fate did for me. It was the only help I seeked that actually worked for me which is why I say is the Ultimate.My friend who advised me to contact a spell caster remained married to her husband for ten years and some months now because of love Ajayi Ololo fate of her.I can not speak of my own because its just been two months .I you want to save your relationship Contact your roulette with this email ajayiololo @ (yahoo). com. Warning: use this email in the regular mail format

  • bill stoner

    HOW MY EX LOVER CAME BACK TO ME
    Am bill stoner by name My ex-boyfriend dumped me 6 months ago after I accused him of seeing someone else and insulting him. I want him back in my life but he refuse to have any contact with me. I was so confuse and didnt know what to do, a friend of mine introduce me to a love spell caster from South Africa, Dr Oduduwa who cast love spell to re-unite broken relationship and marraiges, at first i doubted if it was real but decided to give it a try, when i contact this love spell caster via his email oduduewalovespelltemple@gmail.com he casted a love spell that brought back my ex within 24 hours, we are back together, contact this love spell caster for your marriage or relationship problems via his email oduduwalovespelltemple@gmail.com or +27622982807

  • Bryna Christiana

    I have this same problem. My husband and I were the perfect couple at first. We clicked right away and the chemistry was just crazy. But reality kicked in real soon and we started arguing a lot. Until now get into heavy arguments, where none of us is really listening and always out talk each other, until one day my husband left me it was like a dream, i beg and apologize for everything, he refuse for 1 year and 3 month, until i meet a man call doctor ebolo online who is a great spell caster he cast a spell for me and told me that my husband will come back in 48 hours to beg me to come home, to my greatest surprise my husband come after 2 days of the spell and told me he is sorry, am so happy that i meet doctor ebolo, if you need his help contact him on ebolospelltemple@hotmail.com

  • Emily Laurens

    I never believed in love spells or magic until I met this spell caster
    Dr.okpodu which a friend of mine told me about on (
    dr.okpoduspellhome@gmail.com) he is really powerful and could help cast
    spells to bring back one’s gone, lost, misbehaving lover and magic money
    spell or spell for a good job or luck spell .I’m now happy & a living
    testimony because the man I wanted to marry left me 3 weeks before our
    wedding and my life was upside down because our relationship has been on
    for 3years. I really loved him, but his family was against us and he had no
    good paying job. So when I met this spell caster, I told him what happened
    and explained the situation of things to him. At first I was undecided,
    skeptical and doubtful, but I just gave it a try. And in 8 days when I
    returned to Canada, my boyfriend (now my husband) called me by himself and
    came to me apologizing that everything had been settled with his mom and
    family and he got a new job interview so we should get married. I didn’t
    believe it because the spell caster only asked for my name and my boy
    friends name and all I wanted him to do. Well we are happily married now
    and we are expecting our little kid, and my husband also got the new job
    and our lives became much better. His email is dr.okpoduspellhome@gmail.com;.
    you can also contact him for help. I wish you good luck

  • Gert B Frobe

    We have been married for 40 years now, there is nothing I would change about our relationship. Ask me anything you like as to how we do it, I would be happy to give my experience.

  • Jenny Bush

    Hello everyone reading this wonderful testimony,my wife dumped me 8 months ago after I accused her of seeing another man and insulting her.I want her back in my life but she refused to have any contact with me. She changed her line and block me not to have any contact with her. I was so confuse and don’t know what to do. So I reach to the internet for help and I saw a testimonies of how this powerful spell caster help them to get their ex back. So I contact the spell caster whose name is Dr Osato on the email (relationshipspell@gmail. com) and explain my problem to him and he cast a spell for me and assure me of 2days that my wife will return to me, and to my greatest surprise,the Second day of it my wife came knocking at my door and she beg me to forgive her and accept her back. I am so happy that my love is back again. Dr Osato,he is truly talented and gifted. Email him for any kind of help at RELATIONSHIPSPELL@GMAIL. COM He is the only answer to relationship and marrriage issues. He can be of great help and I will not stop publishing his good work because people are still talking about him on the Internet..

  • Helena Reed

    Life without my husband was a real mess for me and my children,thanks to Dr balogun for helping me bring back my ex husband, if any one here need his help try contact him, he is the answer to all your problems,he is like a god on earth i give you 100% guarantee that he will help you contact him vai email balogunsolutiontemple@gmail.com or call{+2349039520524}
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  • William Jennifer

    Is like a dream comes through, I never believed in Spells or Black Magics works until I met this special spell caster called DR KEN.. The man i wanted to marry left me 3 months to our wedding ceremony and my life was upside down.he was with me for 4 years and i really love him so much..he left me for another woman with no reasons..when i called him, he never picked up my calls and he don’t want to see me around him…so,when i told the man what happened. he helped me to do some readings,and after the readings he made me to realize that the other woman has done some spells over my Husband and that is the reason why he left me..he told me he will help me to cast a spell to bring him back. At first i was skeptical but i just gave it a try…In 4 days, My Husband called me himself and came to me apologizing..I cant believe he can ever come back to me again but now i am happy he’s back and we are married now and we live as a happy family..Am posting this to the forum if anyone needs the help of this man called DR KEN the man is for real. you can contact him through this email address : drkensolutiontemple@gmail.com or call mobile number +2349052116690