10 Things Wives Want to Hear from their Husbands

Last month I wrote about the 10 things husbands want to hear from their wives. Now I thought it was time for me to reveal the 10 things wives want to hear from their husbands. So here they are…

1. “Thanks for all you do for our family.”

Yes, you work hard.  You might even feel that your load is a million times heavier than your wife’s.  But your wife works hard, too…and a little thanks goes a long way.

2. “You are a great mom and wife.”

If you really want to make her day, go beyond saying “thank you” and praise her for doing a good job.

3. “Let me do that for you.”

Your wife realizes you are exhausted when you get home from work.  She probably is too.  So offer to help out.  Start with something small like cleaning up after dinner.  Or, if you really want to score points, do the laundry or something else you normally don’t do.

4. “I love you so much.”

Did you notice the extra words, after the “I love you?”  Telling your wife you love her is a great start, but telling her why you love her, how much you love her, or that you’ll love her forever, will melt her heart.

5. “You are beautiful.”

No matter her age, her size or how long you’ve been married, a woman loves to hear that you think she’s attractive.  And, don’t just say, “You look nice.”  Instead, use adjectives like, great, lovely, fantastic.

6. “Let me watch the kids.”

If you already watch your children regularly, good job!  If you don’t, think of it this way.  When you offer to take care of the children, your wife gets to recharge her batteries.  A wife with a recharged battery is usually more patient, kind and loving.

7. “Let’s go out tonight.”

Take charge of your next date night.  This shows your wife that you enjoy spending time with her.

8. “I’m sorry you had a hard/frustrating/disappointing day.”

These words let your wife know that you are aware of what’s going on in her life.

9. “I would marry you all over again.”

In one sentence you’re telling your wife you value your life together and that you’re committed to her.

10. “How can I be a better husband to you?”

Hearing these words will either make your wife burst into tears, smile like a kid in a candy store, or, if she’s completely shocked, laugh uncontrollably.  Before you ask this question, though, be ready to hear what she has to say without being defensive.

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  • Iman N.

    Yes cause woopie is all that matters for men. We get that…
    Actually, without the emotional connection no matter how great your bedroom skills are , your wife will not want to make woopie if she feels more like a sexual object rather than aloved human being…Ther is time for woopie and time to make love….

  • Iman N.

    #7 would be pretty amazing !!! #9 and 10 would bring tears into my eyes and wake up the romantic me Awwwwwwww….. My spouse would take this list as a chore and perhaps attempt to say you are beautiful while watching ESPN so he does not hear me complain that I feel invisible….And then I would probably get excited and replicate the effort to hear him say: “Are we done talking yet ” or act like he is listening with eyes on the TV screen LMAO ……Rather be alone than invisible ….I tried sharing the list first though but he did not even read my email let alone respond to it ….Not enough time you know …..Positive energy to all of the ladies that are not told enough how amazing and beautiful they are and that they are the rock of the household……I have chosen to tell myself how amazing I am and how beautiful I am and it works like a charm ….

  • Joe Hood

    we have no problem doing the things on that list for each other, my wife and I. We have LOWKEY a non-submisive marriage. she talks nasty like she is a dude ready to fight. maybe its because im a cancer and shes a gemini. idk but WOMEN HELP US. WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT IS ALL I WANT, PLEASE TELL ME WHAT I NEED. WE ARE BOTH 25. YOUNG BLACK BEAUTIFUL COUPLE. I THINK ALSO ITS BECAUSE OF (money problems) you cant manage something you never have. i just really want to hear from you WOMEN. I KNOW SOME WILL BASH ME ITS OKAY. IVE ACCEPTED THAT WHEN I JOINED.