Okay guys, this is Susan. Mark doesn’t know I’m writing this blog, but I have a few ideas to share with you for how you can get your wife in the mood on Christmas Eve. It’s nothing elaborate, but I assure you it will have a big impact. Here are 9 little things you can do to get your wife in the mood on Christmas Eve. Merry Christmas!
1. Help get the kids in bed. Use one of these 10 free Christmas stories to help them wind down!
2. Next, he tackles the gift mountain. Seriously, the ultimate turn-on for a wife is watching her husband complete a chore.
3. Bonus points if he arranges the gifts under the tree.
4. Download and play romantic Christmas tunes:
- That Holiday Feeling: Steve Lawrence and Eydie Gorme
- Baby It’s Cold Outside: Steve Lawrence and Eydie Gorme
- Let it Snow: Steve Lawrence and Eydie Gorme
- All I Want for Christmas is You: Michael Bublé
- Last Christmas: Glee Cast
- Please Come Home for Christmas: Harry Connick, Jr.
- Santa Baby: Michael Bublé
5. Set the Vibe (Pajamas are Mandatory).
6. Make a fire.
7. Initiate hot chocolate duty.
8. Relax: This is important. The final hour before Christmas Day needs to be low-stakes.
9. Give a gift early: Consider opening one small, thoughtful gift early. It just adds a little unexpected spark of “We’re doing something special just for us” before the Christmas morning craziness hits.
10. Playing a simple board or card game. The goal is zero-pressure connection. When your spouse feels genuinely seen and relaxed, that’s when the mood naturally follows.
What are some other ideas you have for getting your spouse in the mood? I’d love to hear your ideas.
