July 8, 2010 Posted By: Mark Merrill

How to Love an Unlovable Spouse?

 

I know it may sound strange, but sometimes we just have to bite the bullet and hug the porcupine. Let me explain…

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  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Theresa-Sullivan-McArtor/1325065830 Theresa Sullivan McArtor

    You are deffinetly right, This also can refer to Our Kids, Our Friends & Our Spouses. I always say I might not always like or Agree with Your Actions but I Still Care or Love YOU. I believe people don't understand how they can be Mean to You or do something you don't like or agree with and you Still Care Or LOVE Them

  • http://www.FamilyMinute.com/ Mark Merrill

    Thanks for your input, Theresa. We appreicate it!

  • gator 1976

    My situation is a bit different. My wife of 33 years is fighting Fibromyalgia, low self esteem, negativity and depression. Everyday is a struggle just to get out of bed. Everyday a new hurt or ailment arrives, thus, she is not able to work. She takes all this out on her family. We haven't been intimate in 5 years and have no person relationship other than trying to get her better. She is seeing 4 doctors, al lwith different ideas on treatment and taking 5 medications plus suppliments every day. Mayo clinic where she has gone before, is not on our medical plan thus will cost us thousands just to have her seen. We are getting to the point where our medical bills are as much as our mortgage. I am at a loss on how to help her/us. For better or worse, we've been in the worse fo the last few years and don't knwo where to turn.

  • http://www.FamilyMinute.com/ Mark Merrill

    Gator1976, I am so sorry to hear of your pain and struggles…

  • TVF

    “…To death, do we part….” Be reminded of your vows, and what brought you together 33 years agao! How awsom is that?!
    Be steadfast toward seeking the Lord, and beliefs from the Gospel during the trying times. God Bless you, your wife and her illnesses and your family.

  • Cottrells

    You can get some help from Young Living essential oils and get those FM symptoms under control. Really. You can reply to me for help.

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